No. I often begin with one partner when the other isn’t ready or is unsure. In those cases, we focus on stabilizing your side of the dynamic — things like communication patterns, triggers, or boundaries — so the relationship stops feeling chaotic. When the second partner chooses to join, they’re stepping into a cleaner, more grounded process instead of a crisis.

In this model, you’re not bouncing between two professionals with different interpretations; you have one point person who sees the full picture. In most traditional setups, partners hide information or run two separate agendas, which slows progress. Here, everything comes back to one shared roadmap so you’re not “processing” endlessly — you’re actually moving forward.

You can still make significant progress on your own. When one partner stabilizes their triggers and communication patterns, the entire dynamic shifts — for example, arguments that used to last days often shrink to minutes. In many cases, the other partner steps in once they see the change, because the environment feels safer and less reactive.

Most approaches keep you talking about issues without giving you a path to resolve them. This program is structured with clear milestones, weekly accountability, and no secrecy between individual and couple work. A typical pattern we see is that couples who felt “stuck for years” start seeing movement within the first month because they finally have a single, aligned process.

I understand the concern — this is a significant investment, and you want to know you’re supported. Because the results depend on both partners showing up, I don’t offer refunds based on outcomes, but here’s what you can count on: my full involvement, clear structure, and ongoing adjustments whenever something isn’t working. In past programs, couples either rebuilt the relationship in a way that felt solid and calm, or gained the clarity and confidence to end things without regret or confusion. Either way, you’re not left guessing or navigating alone.